This is a great test: Ask to meet soon after the introduction on the Internet.
If there are continual excuses, then you know that person doesn't really live where they say they do, and/or he isn't truly interested in you.8. Most people who earn a decent living wish to be wanted for who they are, not for their income.
If days are suddenly weeks, and weeks have turned into months, something is amiss.
Don't let his smooth talk — and your desperation — cloud your judgment.
Think about it: How do you know if there is real charisma there?
If he respects them, then he gets the green light and you two can continue to get to know him. Yes, you might get some radio silence at first but eventually, someone will emerge from that rubble and will be similar to you with values more aligned to yours.
If you are falling for someone on the other side of the screen, make sure the feelings are mutual. He should be actively participating in scheduling the online date times.
If you are spending more time emailing and less time talking, video chatting or texting, this is not a good sign.
The only way you’ll see him or find him is if you shut the rest of the noise down.
That guy…one closer to your values, well, he takes his time, too. He might think you expect a shirtless pic right at the beginning!